Mothers Day Ideas

March 9th, 2010

It’s less than a week now to Mothers Day (and you’ve been reminded now so there’s no excuse for forgetting!) so it’s time to think of ways to say ‘Thank you!’ to your Mum.

Plan a Party
If your Mum enjoys social occasions and get togethers, try surprising her with a party? Send invitations to friends and relatives that she enjoys spending time with, but be careful only to invite those who will keep the party’s mood fun, and relaxing. Look through past party photo albums or digital photo albums to get an idea of who best to invite.

Don’t forget though that this is your Mum’s surprise party. You want her to be the queen for the day, so pick drinks and food that are easy to serve and clean up. You definitely don’t want your Mum left in the kitchen with a pile of washing up!

Decorate the party with a “Happy Mother’s Day” banner along with lots of lovely flowers, balloons, streamers and anything that will help make your Mum feel special.

Plan a Day Out
Not everyone likes parties, so if your Mum isn’t a fan, or you think she’d prefer to spend time with close family members, why not plan a day out? Visit an exhibition, take in a show, or simply visit the movies together. Make a day of it by including lunch or dinner at their favourite restaurant, then sit back and enjoy some quality time together.

Inexpensive Mothers Day Ideas
You don’t necesarily have to spend a lot of money to make it a day to remember. Start the day with breakfast in bed, then put the washing on, prepare lunch, wash the dishes etc. Whatever routine chores your Mum normally does, why don’t you do it for a change. It won’t just give your Mum a break but it might also remind you just how much your Mum does for you!

Wedding Blog Carnival – 30th March

March 4th, 2010

Do you write a wedding related blog? Or are you interested in reading wedding related blog posts? Are you getting married, just got married or are a wedding planner or wedding professional? And most importantly do you blog about or want to read about weddings?

Well, if you said yes to any of the above then you might be interested in our 1st ever UK wedding blog carnival here at Instant Forever which we’re going to run on Tuesday 30th March.

A carnival is a blogging event and “The UK Wedding Blogger Carnival” takes place every month to start off with and highlights the best posts from the UK Wedding blogging community.

This is how it works: every month a different wedding blogger “hosts” the carnival. Bloggers should submit their best post from the past month — this could be your most popular post, one that has hit home and attracted lots of comments, or just your favourite one. For this month, simply email helen@instantforever.com with ‘Wedding Blog Carnival’ in the title.

The rules are one post per blogger and it must be something written in the past month. The host blogger picks the best 25 (or more if they’ve got time and inclination), writes the carnival and the submitters publicise with a post, link, tweet, etc. It’s up to the host to decide if they want to have a theme.

If you want to get an idea of what a carnival looks like, take a look at this brilliant one, hosted by Kassia at Working Mum.

If you’d like to host a carnival, either email me or leave a comment below and I’ll be in touch.

FAQ’s: Which colour of photo guest book should I choose?

March 2nd, 2010

Photo Guest Book Colour Options (Digital pictured)

We often receive calls from anxious bride-to-be’s who can’t make a decision on what colour of photo guest book to go for. But colour decisions are tricky no matter what type of party you’re planning for.

Our photo guest books for Polaroid, Fuji Instax and Digital all come in a range of colours: black, white, natural, red, chocolate brown, pewter grey, baby pink and baby blue. But what if your wedding is a sage green and ivory theme for example – what to choose?

Think Timeless

Our black and white albums are elegant and timeless – in 30 years time, you’ll barely remember what colour ‘theme’ your wedding was, but your black or white photo guest book will still look great. In addition, many photographers will provide wedding albums with either a black or white cover, so your photo guest book will look great alongside it. I’m often asked ‘which colour would you choose’ and I always recommend black – in fact it’s what I give to friends as a wedding gift.

Baby Albums Colours

Think Neutral

Again, neutral colours will always look good. For peace of mind, you could also consider a protective cover to protect a lighter coloured album against grubby fingermarks etc?

Think Occasion

Obviously, for a ruby wedding anniversary party photo guest book, go for a lovely rich red album. For a christening or naming ceremony guest book, choose baby pink or baby blue. Our pewter coloured photo guest book is perfect for Pewter wedding anniversaries (10 years) or a great silver (25th) wedding anniversary party idea.

Planning a Wine Tasting Evening

February 25th, 2010

Now that Christmas / New Years excesses are a dim and distant memory and you’ve got your January detox out of the way, why not think about throwing a wine tasting evening?  A wine tasting event is a great party idea to share with others – as long  as you have paracetamol on hand for the morning after!

An at home wine tasting is easy to arrange and requires very little in the way of  party planning. You’ll need wine but if you ask guests to bring a bottle of their favourite vino that will keep costs down. Aside from that you just need some disposable plastic wine glasses, plenty of snacks and space in the fridge to chill any white or sparkling wines.

Prepare your wine stations by wine type – one for red, one for white and one for dessert / sparkling. Set aside a couple of bottles for a game of ‘Guess the Grape’ later on. You can act as the Sommelier yourself, or enlist the help of a non-drinking buddy and let each guest sample any of the wines they choose. If they like a particular wine, offer them a full glass.

To play ‘Guess the Grape’, cover the labels of a few of each type of wine and hand guests a sheet of paper with spaces for them to write each answer. Guests should sniff and taste the wine and then make their guess as to which type or grape variety the wine is based upon. Having sampled each wine, they must write down the grape from which it was made, be it Chardonnay, Merlot or Shiraz. The winner takes home an unopened bottle as a prize…and maybe some paracetamol for their headache.

Quality of Polaroid Film v’s Fuji Instax Film

February 18th, 2010

Polaroid – Instant, Fun and Kitsch
We all know that with Polaroid film, you won’t get a professional quality print. But that’s sort of missing the point. The GREAT thing about Instant Film is that you get to take the photo and immediately watch it develop, right then and there in your hands. It’s fun. You point, click and out pops your photo, ready to take away (or insert into your photo guest book) There are Polaroid photos that were taken in the 1960’s that are still around today and in good shape. Just keep them away from extreme heat or cold and you’ll have an iconic, retro inspired photo in your hands to keep forever.

Fujifilm – An Instant Alternative

If you’re looking for a better quality (and more readily available) instant film option, why not trytry Fuji’s Instax 200 Instant Color Print Film. The glossy-finish film prints ultra sharp for an 800 speed film making it really useful in low lighting. It The film has enhanced stability too, making it a great choice for archival use. Fujifilm can be used with our Fuji memory album guest book and with Fuji’s Instax 200 or 210 Camera. Like Polaroid, with a Fuji Instax camera you point, click the button, take your picture and out it prints instantly for developing – capturing the Instant, Forever!

Wedding Planning Tip #1: Lovely loo’s

February 13th, 2010

Have you ever been to a nice hotel or restaurant and been disappointed by the toilets? I have to say that the best toilets I’ve ever been in were at The Capital Hotel. Not only did they have Molton Brown handwash and lotion, but they also had little bottles of their mouthwash which I thought was a lovely touch.

As a wedding reception idea, don’t forget to spruce up your toilets. Guests will gather there to gossip, touch up their make-up, have a breather and even use the loo’s. On one memorable occasion at a friends wedding in France, I remember that a friend and I had to dip our feet in the sinks to try to ease the swelling because it was so hot and our heels were so high – not recommended!

Essential Rose Soap Bellingham Soap Company

So think about having quality hand wipes available to dry guests hands rather than paper towels. If your venue doesn’t already provide it, some quality handwash and lotion are always better than a bar of soap – unless of course it’s a lovely bar of Essential Rose Soap from the Bellingham Soap company. Deodorant, hairspray and blister plasters or leg cooling gel are always really appreciated by those who need them – and there’s always someone who does.  Lastly, in the evening, some scented candles add to the atmosphere, making your wedding one to remember!

As usual if you have any ideas to share, please feel free to leave a comment or for more unique party ideas, tips and customer reviews of our wedding guest books and wedding guest book ideas, please visit our blog.

Share your ideal Valentines Day surprise here!

February 11th, 2010

Confetti Hearts

Following on from our rather tongue-in-cheek Anti Valentines Day Party ideas I thought I’d start a rather more important topic here.

If you’re in a relationship, there’s nothing worse, sadder or in some instances funnier than your partner getting it wrong with presents. To give a personal example, I was in dubious receipt of a statuette of ‘Sawyer from LOST’ a few christmases ago. Seriously.

For Valentines day, I’m not fussed about cards (though I prefer home-made to bought) and would HATE one of those massive padded things that people used to give years ago. Well I assume everyone did, or maybe it was just the young and gullible as my boyfriend bought me one when I was 15, along with a red rose…how romantic (bleurgh).

Anyway, to get back on track and to clear things up once and for all, here is my ideal (realistic) Valentines day. I say realistic, as in an ideal world, I’d be jetted off to New York for the weekend without kids and would eat fantastic meals and sleep late, but let’s face it, that isn’t going to happen.

My ideal Valentines day treat would be simple. Breakfast in bed and a bar of Green and Blacks chocolate. I’d feel loved and adored and would be an extremely happy bunny all day…

Please share your ideal realistic Valentines day and the winner receives a big bar of green and black chocolate!

Wedding Planners….not just for Footballers Wives!

February 10th, 2010

It used to be that wedding planners were considered a bit OTT (think Frauuunk from ‘Father of the Bride’).  They were fine for footballers wives and minor royalty but most of us had enough got along fine with family and friends.  However wedding planning is now a viable option for many of us as they offer a range of services, suiting all budgets and requirements.

I’ve worked with the lovely people at the UKAlliance of Wedding Planners which is a professional organisation which trains and vets wedding planners to meet their strict criteria. After all, if you’re going to entrust your wedding day to someone you don’t know, you want to be sure they’ve got the skills and commitment to make it the best day possible.

The UKAWP suggest that there are 5 categories of service available. First comes the ‘all bells and whistles’ Full Planning & Management. Your planner will sort every element of your wedding for you, based exactly on your requirements. They’ll manage your budget for you which is no small task in itself, source suppliers from photographers to florists and will work tirelessly to create your dream wedding. On the day you’ll be left stress-free and able to focus on your day, leaving the details to them.

Final Few Weeks
For most of us, we’re happy to source our own suppliers, etc but could really do with some help in those last few weeks when everything appears super-stressful. You’ll meet with your planner who will also visit your venue, sort out your schedule and make sure your big day runs smoothly.

On The Day Management
This is just a fantastic option for those couples who have exacting standards but wish to have a relaxed wedding day. You make the arrangements and on the day your planner co-ordinates your suppliers, so you can just kick back and relax. They’ll handle everything from dressing your venue to getting your photo guest book signed, whatever you need.

Venue Search
This is a great option for helping to manage your budget. You simply provide your planner with a brief about your wedding, numbers, preferred venue type etc and they’ll provide a short-list for you.

Supplier search
Similar to the venue search, if you’re struggling to find a florist who can make a rose archway, or a fantastic Carnival Band to stun your guests, then you should consider using a supplier search service.

Choosing a reputable wedding planner could be the best wedding decision you make!

Anti-Valentines Day Party Ideas

February 3rd, 2010

Can you believe that it’s February already?  Yes only a couple of weeks until Valentines day, a veritable minefield of a day whether you’re part of a couple or single.  If you’re part of a couple (married or not) there’s the whole present / card trauma.  Do you buy one or not?  Will you sulk if you don’t get anything (me!) 

If you’re single, it can also be a drag.  You can’t get a decent meal without paying OTT prices, and you’ll be surrounded by couples who aren’t talking to each other because they’re ‘past all that’ now.

So why not get together with some like-minded friends and have an Anti-Valentines day party?  If you fancy a fabulously bitchy party, invite all your single girlfriends (or gay male friends ;-) ).   Like any ‘normal’ party you can have food, drink, music and games and I’ve made a few suggestions for each below:

Games

  •  Buy a dartboard, bring along a pic of your worst ‘ex’ and then have fun by taking it in turns to spear them in the head, with double points for hitting both eyes, naturally.
  • Alternatively, the childrens party game ‘Pin the tail on the donkey’ can have a whole new meaning as you attempt to pin whatever you want to a picture of your ex.  Or the Prime Minister, or George W, or whomever.

Food & Drink

  • For this sort of party, it’s really got to be cocktails.  I particularly like the sound of A Lovers Tiff or perhaps a Valentines Dream.  Maybe even a Lovers twist? To be fair some of these sound disgusting, but you get the idea!
  • Food wise, whatever is easy to stick in the oven and abosorb some alcohol.  Pizza is always a good bet, as are any sort of nacho’s / dips etc.

Music

As for music, it’s got to be uplifting and it’s got to be something you can sing along to.  No Bridget Jones style caterwauling in your PJ’s, more of the Gloria Gaynor / Abba-esque belting it out, loud and proud.  If you can borrow someones ‘Singstar’ all the better.

And of course it wouldn’t be a party without someone taking dodgy photos for ‘posterity’.  Just remember to get yourself a fabulous Photo Album to keep all those lovely pics in.

As usual if you have any ideas to share, please feel free to leave a comment or for more unique party ideas, tips and customer reviews of our wedding guest books and wedding guest book ideas, please visit our blog.

Personalised Wedding invitations – unique, alternative ideas

February 1st, 2010

There are absolutely LOADS of gorgeous Wedding Stationers to choose from, to suit every price range from budget to luxury.  I love the beautiful designs from Maida Vale and Ella Announcements (below) but what can you do for something a little alternative and personalised?
Ella Announcements

I’ve seen some great ideas used – some more user friendly than others it has to be said! At the budget end of the scale is the option of sending all your guests a CD invitation. The benefit of this is that it’s cheap to produce and send and you can have as much information on there as you want. You could even include engagement photos or have background music playing when the file is opened. Really the only limit on how personalised this can be comes down to your technical skills. The only downside to this is if you’ve got guests who aren’t computer literate.

Another interesting idea is the ‘message in a bottle’, available from Violet and Blue. Perfect for a wedding abroad, you can personalise your invitation using a scroll.

Again, if you’re computer literate you can have some fun creating your own humourous invites. Friends of ours who shall remain nameless found a fantastic cartoon photo of two well-endowed ‘naturists’ posing nude which they superimposed their own heads onto. It probably isn’t everyones cup of tea, but it was really funny and very memorable – perfect for their wedding.

Other friends also designed their own invitations by taking pictures of bride and groom ‘Little People’ and editing the photo to add text wordiong on top. It was great, very personal and also very cute.

Lastly, if you just want to have traditional wording but still want a little something different, how about usingWildflower Seed Paper to print your invites. Your guests will certainly remember your wedding when they look at the beautiful wild flowers growing in their garden as a result.

As usual if you have any ideas to share, please feel free to leave a comment or for more unique party ideas, tips and customer reviews of our wedding guest books and wedding guest book ideas, please visit:www.instantforever.com/blog/.